tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6866951365200962990.post8752542078383999530..comments2024-02-24T09:10:07.692+00:00Comments on begin to dig: The irritation of the "I want you to..." coaching cue - and alternativesdr. m.c.http://www.blogger.com/profile/06946429548291747143noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6866951365200962990.post-31942722917598967392011-06-26T00:07:13.330+01:002011-06-26T00:07:13.330+01:00So you just couldnt take it anymore, eh? well i fe...So you just couldnt take it anymore, eh? well i feel your nails on blackboard response but must say, here, in this space, Sorry divecat, that just ain't gonna happen. I understand you've habituated to a particular convention and it's jarring when it's disrupted, but we're plastic people, and likely your brain has already developed the exception case to coming here, and is dr. m.c.https://www.blogger.com/profile/06946429548291747143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6866951365200962990.post-74829827772490773252011-06-21T10:41:25.290+01:002011-06-21T10:41:25.290+01:00I love your writing, but it would be much easier t...I love your writing, but it would be much easier to read if you used a capital I when you are referring to yourself. It is never, never used in a lower case form and interrupts the flow when it is. Please take this feedback with the goodwill with which it is intended.Divecathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02660689942284543372noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6866951365200962990.post-46718186291771947372011-06-13T10:21:43.357+01:002011-06-13T10:21:43.357+01:00Hi Kyle, very witty summary.
No coach in particul...Hi Kyle, very witty summary.<br /><br />No coach in particular - it really is just ubiquitous and remarkably across the board from coaches i encounter at certs or experienced folks lecturing - once you're attuned to it, its frequency is amazing. it's become a nails on glass thing to me, so i had to try to figure out why...oooo!<br /><br />thanks for stopping by.<br /><br />Hi Bodyology - dr. m.c.https://www.blogger.com/profile/06946429548291747143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6866951365200962990.post-21178655780176306582011-06-13T09:29:43.263+01:002011-06-13T09:29:43.263+01:00Glad you discussed alternatives near the end, othe...Glad you discussed alternatives near the end, otherwise I could foresee the "I want you to..." earworm burrowing in & those words spilling out with every one of my clients today.<br /><br />Interesting post as ever. Life & the internet are littered with coaches & teachers who encourage dependency, whether for their own ego or profit.<br /><br />The best teachers aim to make Bodyologyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07840562878992411894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6866951365200962990.post-33980846601817273412011-06-13T01:03:10.071+01:002011-06-13T01:03:10.071+01:00Hmmm, so you're saying we should
be clear, ha...Hmmm, so you're saying we should<br /><br />be clear, have reasons for what we're doing, and explain them?<br /><br />Sounds good to me :)<br /><br />I think we'd all be interested to hear the story of the coach who inspired this rant!Hanley Tuckshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13047638048463160737noreply@blogger.com